No one is completely innocent or completely guilty.
End the blaming!
Take full responsibility for your part and learn!! Even if someone was mean to you – you allowed it. You believed it. It offended you. The question would be: why? Life is just mirroring your own belief system (perception) about yourself.
Blame = past
Responsibility = present
IF we want depth to our lives then we must be intentional about that, otherwise we end up spending our days being shallow.